I am a United Kingdom army officer, at present am in Afghanistan for peace keeping and I will retire soon. I have been in the army for 28 years, I do not want to go back to United Kingdom because i want to start a new life and when I find true love i wish to get married and start a new life. I’m looking for someone who is also looking for me, someone who believes that a man like me truly exists and wants to explore all the great things a good relationship has to offer, I am looking for a good relationship, someone who enjoys doing things for the people they care about, someone who strikes a balance in life, interjects humor when appropriate, and knows when it's alright to be serious about things. I need to be sure so we can go now?